Really? we just spent ANOTHER session at the shrink discussing how clean the house is or is not? What a freaking waste. I accepted MANY MANY MONTHS ago that you do not live in reality regrading how clean and neat a house can be or that you have any idea how much I work I do to keep it as squared away as I possible can. I'm SO OVER all of THAT! I just accept that you are a complete ignoramus in this area of our marriage and ignore you.
Maybe we should spend some time discussing that I just spent five hours sitting between a co-worker of yours and his wife knowing the whole time that he has been banging our neighbor for like a year and a half....Because that was comfortable.
Or e could discuss that no matter how much weight I lose, or how toned my muscles get, that my body has had three children that you love dearly and that it will NEVER look like a 20 year old body EVER AGAIN. Let's discuss that I worry all the time that you will never be attracted to me because of that and that your marked decline in sexual advances only solidifies my fears. Lets discuss that. THAT might be worth the money it takes to sit on her couch!
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I'd start in at the next session & not give him a chance to start whining about the house (rolling eyes) Seriously ~ unless he has OCD, how important are sparkling floors in the grand scheme of life?! If that's all he has to whine about ~ his life ROCKS! (Just ask my hubs! LOL)
A year & a half ~ the wife has no clue? That's cold ...
sorry to hear this. also-you could privately talk to the therapist and ask her to bring up the sex, maybe that would break the ice.
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